Wow I received a similar rant from a meer fingernail comment lol. This deserved what it got. Sometimes I feel sorry for women in online dating.
I have written in my profile that I am “seeing someone” and “don’t message me if you’re on here for casual sex” in the first few sentences. So, I get annoyed when people don’t read that.
Oh you are taken and still on the site, or is it just some type of deterrent.
On there looking for friends. I have friends on there who are in relationships too so we use it just to network. That is why OkC gives you the option of “new friends” in your “looking for” so that it can be used for more than dating.
Bold to go into shark infested water with a fresh cut looking friends lol. I don’t think I have ever paid attention to the new friends thing and when I did I wasn’t the droid they was looking for lol…
What are men on an online dating website supposed to think?
It was a bit of a harsh response for someone who just asked you how you are. If you want to do some networking with the intention of only stumbling upon people who want to be just friends, find some other site.
1.) No. Why should I find some other site.
2.) Clearly you are not a reader of my blog. Otherwise, you would know I A.) Have it REALLY visible on my OkC profile that I do not want to have casual sex.
3.) You can’t see it in the photo but the guys whole profile is just him talking about he wants girls to suck his dick and picture of his dick.
So no it isn’t harsh. And men on dating sites are supposed to read the actual profiles. For example, on OkC, you have the option to put “I am here for “just friends” that is on the drop down. I made that thing years ago to do the quiz things on. I made friends on there. Why should I delete it? I am not there to network specifically. I’m actually there to get shit like this and post it on this site. Because people are stupid and ignorant.
He didn’t just “ask how I was” he wanted me to basically suck his dick according to his profile but I felt that it was pretty self explanatory with the “summer fun” and the picture of his half covered penis.
What are “men” supposed to think? I don’t know… why don’t you ask some of my guy friends whom I met on OKC who were also in relationships and just looking for friends? FFS… OKC was a friggin social nnetworking site that made you sign up just to take its quizzes (which you then posted to your live journal or MySpace back in the day). Now all that shit is merged and the primary use is more for dating, but it’s still a hell a useful tool for finding friends or wasting time on old school internet quizzes. The options for “in a relationship” and “looking for friends” are there for a reason. People who utilize those functions aren’t the problem. Furthermore, even if I or Megan were single, we’d have every right to be pissed if some skeezy dick (literally) was bothering us because they couldn’t be arsed to read that we were seeking something more serious.
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